Another popular misconception is that men are only in it for themselves. They just want to blow a load and use a woman to get off. I'd venture to say that the majority of men secretly want to be the best lover that the woman he's with has ever had. So what is stopping him? Partly education, impatience, general lack of sensual awareness, but a bigger factor is the woman herself. There are men who are naturally incredible lovers but ladies, you can prime yourselves to be made love to like a sex goddess. It is a woman's responsibility to know what she needs, what she wants, what she likes and to be able to communicate that clearly to the man that she expects to give it to her.
We women know how to orgasm now. We do it easily and efficiently alone with our toys, often 토닥이 에이스 to the exclusion of men who just can't really get it right. It's just easier to get the job done alone. But if you had a partner whose touch set you on fire, who knew every nuance of your body and knew how it changed day to day - even hour to hour - and accommodated that. With whom you felt comfortable taking as long as you needed to to orgasm, who you knew would be more than happy to accept directions even as specific as moving his tongue over 1 millitre to the left and half a centimetre lower and going slower, yes slower, yes that is perfect... can you go faster now, and harder... will you massage my Gpot at the same time (without breaking pace)? Press harder please, deeper... Having your body worshiped and pleasured by a perceptive and enthusiastic lover is a treat like nothing else, if you had a man with a magic touch who could do this and take you to another world... you'd be more of an enthusiastic participant than an avoider.
Sitting around reading 50 shades of grey and then getting off alone is not going to ever fully satisfy you, nor is your ideal fantasy man going to spring up out of nowhere forcing you from passivity and magically turn you into the sex goddess you know you really are. But YOU can be proactive and learn exactly what your body needs and how to communicate that to a man so that he can do it to you and for you. Yes, even the annoying ones who pester and guilt you and sigh over not getting sex this weekend and seem to turn you off more with every irritating word they say after 10 years of doing the same thing. Men, bless them, are willing to learn and like nothing more than to see us in ecstasy. And you know what? Allowing him to do this to you and for you will bring you closer together emotionally, resentments magically dissolve once ecstatic exchanges come into play. Truly.
There is a movement towards sensual massage for women. Legitimate bodywork from educated and skilled passionate professionals of integrity, that heals emotional wounds, elevates body image, increases responsiveness and sexual interest, libido, invigorates and teaches a woman about her body. Teaches her to have the power to communicate and get her needs met. It is an environment like no other, safe, comfortable environment of exploration where the full focus is on your body and your needs. Pamela Madsen is a very visible pioneer in this movement hosting retreats and workshops, many Tantrikas, Dakas and Dakinis and private practitioners such as myself have been doing it discreetly for a long time - discreetly due to cultural misunderstandings about the nature of sensual bodywork. The time has come where women are waking up, reclaiming their sexuality. They are not playing the victim or passive creature of sexual neglect. We want, crave, and expect sexual satisfaction and amazing intimacy in our lives and realize now that it is up to us to create it.
I predict that within a relatively short period of time, massage for women's sensual awakening and education is going to be as mainstream and considered NECESSARY as vibrators, dildos, sex toys, lingerie and other erotic aids.
Forget about the clubs. If you are looking for sex and don't want to have to waste time go online. You can cut right to the chase. This will save you time and let you get to the bedroom a lot quicker.
The problem with going online is that there are so many websites. Social sites like Myspace are not good for meeting people that you want to hook up with for sex. Most people are on their just to meet friends. There is nothing wrong with that., but if you are looking for sex, it will waste your time.
There are two sites that I have found to be really good if you are looking for sex.
The first one is Passion. It is on the racy side, but not porno. You should be able to find someone here that you can really hook up with. I always like to try before I buy. The interface is good and it is easy to get in contact with people. It is also reasonably priced.
The one thing that I am not too crazy about it that it can take a few minutes to set up. However once you get your page set up, the offers start rolling in for you.
The next one is Onlinebootycall. It is as good as it sounds. No pretending. No lying. It is like Burger King. You can have it your way. The interface is easy to use. The IM loads very quickly. You will get a lot of attention on this site. The whole idea is that these women are looking for sex. You can just pick and choose. This one is priced even lower than Passion so that makes it really attractive.
The main thing I don't like about this site is that it is hard to tell the age of some of the people. However with the number of hits that you will be receiving you will be able to sort through them pretty easily.
Stop wasting time and start meeting women. Don't try to turn a good girl bad, just meet a freak and take it from there. When you are tired, bored and frustrated with the other sites come to these two. They will certainly get you the sex that you want.When everyone feels they have perfected their new software by implementing what they have learned into their businesses, but soon realizes